Last updated on June 7, 2019by
Do you wonder if you or someone in your life has Social Anxiety or if it’s perhaps Selective Mutism?
A fine line exists between selective mutism and social anxiety, no wonder you may feel confused.
In fact, the two usually coexist.
Although research on selective mutism is scarce, increasingly more clinicians believe selective mutism is an anxiety-related condition and a symptom of severe social anxiety.
So, treatment for one will often also help as a treatment for the other, that’s how interlinked they are.
As a cub, AnxietyPanda had Selective Mutism.
Advice and information around psychiatric conditions weren’t as accessible as these days.
It was also a time where these sorts of conditions confused those who were uninformed. As a result, they often ignored the symptoms.
They left AnxietyPanda’s Selective Mutism undiagnosed and untreated and it advanced to Social Anxiety during her teen-bear years.
As an adult bear, she has conquered her Selective Mutism to a degree where it now only shows itself on rare occasions, such as when meeting authoritative figures for the first time.
What is Selective Mutism (SM)?
Selective Mutism is an Anxiety related condition, and it affects an extremely small portion of the population compared to Social Anxiety.
Those who are suffering from it cannot communicate with certain individuals or crowds, for example, strangers or distant relatives.
They can, however, hold regular conversations and maintain good eye contact with their close friends, family members or other individuals that make them feel comfortable.
People with Selective Mutism often WANT to communicate with you, the stranger, but are just incapable of doing so.
This is due to irrational fears of being humiliated or judged.
Sometimes they genuinely can not think of anything to say at all. These type of fears causes them to lose their speaking capabilities.
The person with Selective Mutism often avoids situations that will force them to interact with people that make them uncomfortable.
It is not surprising, considering the amount of trauma it can cause them.
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What is Social Anxiety (SA)?
Social Anxiety is also a condition that causes you irrational fear of being judged or humiliated and will usually lead to feelings of inferiority or inadequacy.
Millions of people around the world suffer from it.
An individual suffering from Social Anxiety will not lose their ability to speak as with Selective Mutism.
They will, however, present other manifestations of anxiety such as blushing, trembling, sweating or muscle twitches to mention only a few.
The person suffering from Social Anxiety normally prefers to be alone and will avoid social engagements at any costs.
The isolation often leads to depressive states.
What is the difference between SM and SA?
Many similarities between Social Anxiety and Selective Mutism exist and the two conditions are often diagnosed simultaneously.
So, you can imagine that it is easy to get confused between the two.
Are you confused about what is the difference between Selective Mutism and Social Anxiety?
AnxietyPanda will now highlight a few of the differences.
Hopefully, this will help you have a stronger understanding of these two conditions.
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As you can see from the above infographic, the differences are subtle and it’s best to get a proper diagnosis with the help of your physician.
Treatments that will help for both conditions
Because the two conditions present so many similarities, treatment for the one will likewise help to treat the other.
Typically, treatment for Selective Mutism will take longer, depending on when diagnosis takes place and when treatment starts.
When the two conditions coexist, doctors will invariably treat SM first.
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy is by far one of the most effective and helpful treatments available to improve your autonomous functioning.
A doctor may apply the following approaches, including but not limited to the ones below for both Selective Mutism and Social Anxiety treatment:
Positive Reinforcement – Positive reinforcement is used to reward positive behavior.
Positive behavior may include milestones, such as the sufferer attending a social occasion or successfully being able to speak to someone not well-known to them, out of their own.
Rather than punishing or forcing them when they are not doing these actions, reward them when they do accomplish them on their own.
Extinction – They train you to ignore the undesirable behavior until the shortage of attention to the issue causes the behavior to stop.
Systematic Desensitization – This type of therapy is based on the principle of classical conditioning.
First, the patient will engage in a relaxation technique or breathing exercises.
Then the patient will think of a situation that causes them anxiety.
Starting with the least fearful and progressively working up to the most unpleasant experience thinkable, all the while practicing the relaxation techniques.
The patient can only proceed on to the next stage of anxiety if they have conquered the fear of the current anxiety.
If they can’t progress past a particular level, they will restart again from the beginning.
In vitro or in vivo exposure – In vitro exposure is when the sufferer imagines exposure to a specific phobic stimulus, such as with systematic desensitization.
In vivo exposure is when the sufferer is exposed to a phobic stimulus.
This includes placing the patient in social situations starting from least threatening and gradually working up to most threatening.
Although AnxietyPanda recommends medication only in severe situations where the condition significantly affects your everyday life, Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRI’s) has proven to be remarkably successful in the treatment of both selective mutism and social anxiety disorder.
It’s worth looking into.
Other drugs include Prozac and Zoloft.
If you are suffering from social anxiety or selective mutism, you may feel frustrated by the limitations placed on your everyday life.
You may feel resentful at the inability to express yourself.
You may even feel ashamed of your own self-perceived inadequacy.
But, never give up hope and don’t let these type of thoughts and emotions consume you.
By educating yourself and those around you about your condition, you will pave the way to a better understanding, acceptance, and love – not only from those around you but also from yourself.
Never be afraid to be yourself.
This is easier said than done, but with the appropriate reinforcement and encouragement, it DOES become easier.
Your life has a meaning and a purpose, otherwise, you wouldn’t be here.
Go for it – be the finest you can be. Get that treatment if you need to. Go to that support group meeting you’ve wanted to attend for a while now. Read that self-help book that’s been peering at you from the bookcase for quite some time now.
Whatever it is that you need. Just do it.
Do you have Social Anxiety or Selective Mutism? Both?
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